Monday, November 2, 2009
Are you interested about how birthday order somehow indirectly affects your love life too? Well read on more to find out!
Everyone has a birth order or the order you were born into the family. And whether you're born a firstborn, middleborn, lastborn, an only child or a twin, your birth order can influence your personality and your relationships, say experts.
"While other factors, such as age, race, and gender, all play a role in shaping personality, research indicates that the number one factor influencing the personality is birth order," explains William Cane, author of The Birth Order Book of Love, who has analyzed the birth order of 6,000 celebrities, historical figures and couples.
Birth order personality
FirstbornBecause firstborns are usually tasked with more responsibility from young to look after their siblings, they typically grow up to be dominant, super-responsible, organized and competitive.
Middle-childThe middle child is a people-pleaser. He or she is diplomatic, and it's difficult to get them to take a stand. The middleborn also tends to be a little manipulative.
LastbornLastborns are friendly, creative individuals who love challenging the status quo. They're more adventurous than their siblings and are the risk-taker in the family, although they also tend to be needy at times.
Only childAn only child is used to being in the spotlight within the family, so he or she tends to crave attention. Being an only child also means that he or she is unlikely to know very much about the opposite sex.
TwinsTwins have a strong bond and therefore always think of the other before making a decision. Their thoughtful nature makes them considerate romantic partners.
Compatibilitiness
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Most Compatible birth orders(Firstborn and lastborn)/ (middle child and lastborn)/ (only child and lastborn)
This relationship works great, because the lastborn is going to be the fun-loving partner who teaches the other that it's okay to kick back and relax every now and then, while the firstborn/middle child/only child teaches his or her partner the importance of perserverance and why life should be taken seriously at times.
Least compatible birth ordersFirstborn and firstborn when two bossy firstborns pair up, there is likely to be high friction. There could be plenty of conflict as they could fall into a controller-pleaser mode.
Lastborn and lastbornTwo adventurous individuals may mean double the fun and craziness at first, but with nobody to take charge, this relationship could turn chaotic very soon.
End of my pretty story...

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